Sex can be hard. The exchanging of body fluids is never an easy thing to swallow.
Need a hand? Things like social lubricant (in the form of booze) and actual lubricant (KY jelly) turn things up while dialing awkwardness down. Are you going to be trashed for every sexual encounter though, just to make things go down (and in) a little smoother? That’s not sexy, at least the guys from Chippendales don’t think so.
In celebration of their extended stay in Miami at Mansion, which starts next weekend, and Valentine’s Day of course, the Chippendales fellas have shared a little more with us than just the tip, so you don’t suck, except for when it’s appropriate. We got throat deep with them, talking top sex tips, best and worst dates, and what they look for in a partner.
Tip 1: Talk dirty and, once in a while, get dirty. Rub warm chocolate on your partner or feed her strawberries. I love hot tamales, so eating these right before makes kissing and beyond that much better.
Tip 2: A woman’s body is like an instrument that you can play only if you find the right tuning, AKA her “spots.” Try starting behind the ear and move to the neck, back and thighs. Like a slow tease.
Worst date:I was on an awful date with a girl that was so rude and demanding during dinner. She was texting, instagraming and taking calls while we were trying to have a conversation. She even brought up her ex and asked what type of car and phone I have. I couldn’t wait for the night to end.
Best Date:Most of them are pretty great.
What I look for in a partner:Girls that are wise, humble, outgoing and have a good sense of humor. It is also important that they care about their fitness and appearance.
Tip 1: A fresh, clean scent is always sexy in the bedroom. Mint is great because it stimulates all the senses and is uplifting, so you feel like you have extra energy for the night.
Tip 2: Role play. In the Chippendales show, we are continuously playing different characters on stage from a construction worker to navy officers, etc. and it drives ladies crazy. It also does in the bedroom.
Worst date:It was a blind date and we had nothing in common. Cut it short and split ways.
Best Date:Meeting a complete stranger, and we spent the day together. I count it as the best day and date and it still has yet to be topped.
What I look for in a partner:Compatibility, a great smile and someone who likes sports.
Luis De La Torre
Tip 1: Always be a good girl with bad tendencies in bed. I’ve never met a good girl who didn’t like her hair pulled a little.
Tip 2: If it feels good, go with it. I like to put a little R&B mood music in the background — it’s interesting to see how my partner reacts to the songs/beats.
Worst date: Went on a date with someone I met online. She had a very old photo of herself as her profile picture and looked nothing like her photo in person.
Best Date:The girl was a little nervous for the date and got buzzed right before. It ended up being an entertaining night and so much fun.
What I look for in a partner: Unconditional love and a fun attitude.